Once
again, my recruiter is the greatest, most efficient recruiter in all the land.
Today I had my interview with Emily Whitfield from the Southeastern Regional
Office. It was awesome! Those of you who are up for an interview with Peace Corps
in the near future, don’t sweat it. Emily asked me a series of questions from a
prescribed list which took forever! But during, she let me diverge into other
subjects and even got off on wacky tangents herself. Emily was professional while
remaining very approachable about intimate topics, including her own service with
the Peace Corps in Honduras. We met in the café of Gorgas library so there were
a lot of distractions, like seeing people I know and the whirring of the blenders.
It was kind of hard to stay focused but the conversation was so interesting I
had no trouble at all. I thought it would be a good idea to outline some of the
harder questions she asked and my responses to them.
1) How will your
boyfriend and you manage the separation?
Background
on this one: I had already told her Bill and I have had to deal with things
like facetime and skype before and while they are not replacements were face to
face contact-when that is not available these mechanism work as well.
Bill and I plan to write lots of letters. I love letter writing it helps you really organize the thoughts and descriptions you want to share with others! Also, when internet access allows, we will use things like Skype and Facetime. Peace Corps also offers volunteers cell phones on which to text and call back home on. I believe that open and honest communication will be the keystone to successfully managing the separation. A problem I see on many PC blogs is that the two individuals aren’t experiencing the same things the other is and therefore; people become suspicious. It is only natural. What is important is to remember that you trust and love one another.
2) What will be the hardest part about being away from your family?
My
family is my biggest fan. The hardest part I think will be being away from my
little brother. I like to keep a constant check on what he’s up to. He’s
graduating college soon and it will be hard to not be there for him during that
milestone. Who knows? I might be able to conjure up a trip home for that. The
thing is, my family is very lax about holidays. I have had to spend
Thanksgivings and Christmas Eves away because I had to work. They just worked
to make the time that I was home even more special.
3) How will you handle gender stigma in cultures?
This one
was hard. I have been thinking about this for a very long time. Something I’m
very passionate about is females having the confidence to go out and achieve
what they want. But, something I’m also very passionate about is cultural
respect. I had to get my recruiters help with this one after I told her that it
would be overly difficult for me to do both at the same time. I was happy to
hear that Peace Corps trains you for that type situation and moreover, has
created special programs culturally designed to empower girls. Once again, I
love my recruiter and this organization.
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| Leosotho is a constitutional monarchy in South Africa. |
So,
after the interview Emily looked me in the eye and she said I’m recommending
you for service. I said, “So fast!” She laughed and replied, “Oh don’t worry the
rest of the process will drag by.” It will drag by but I’ve got a lot coming up
over the next few months. A prospective New Orleans trip in April ( to
celebrate a very big event for my boyfriend) and a trip to see my BFF Amy in
Iowa. She said she’d call me later (btw, the call was because UA’s internet is
a joke). Finally, at 8 o'clock, well not exactly but you get the drift, Emily
called to let me know she was nominating me for service in Lesotho which is in
South Africa. I would depart in October to work as a Primary school teacher and
in HIV/AIDS outreach.
Now, a
note about nomination: This could all change. It’s very highly likely it won’t,
given this program is basically tailor made for me. Nevertheless, the important
thing with the Peace Corps is to remain flexible. So, if a few months from now
I tell you that I’m going to Peru to help with agriculture and leaving in
January (very unlikely haha) don’t get mad! The Peace Corps is a journey and it
is the waiting that will make you stronger for your service. You will get
frustrated several times while turning in paper work and more paper work and
then waiting for months on end, but you feel fulfilled all the while. I’m so
excited about my nomination and about my service in the Peace Corps. I still
can’t believe that I’m getting to live out my dream!




